Published 07/02/2008 - 12:47 a.m. GMT
Dear Nina: I was reading the chapters offered on your site, which made me want to buy the book, Temptations of the Single Girl. But I was particularly caught off guard by the chapter “Loving a wounded guy.” The non-intentional type perfectly describes someone I know very well. We never dated, but he is one of my best friends. So, what I want to ask is, can someone ever change that or is it like your eye color and basically you’re stuck with it? He is a good guy and will do anything for you, but he basically doesn’t care and when he does things that hurt others he doesn’t have any remorse about it, or doesn’t show if he does. I guess I’m asking it because I worry that he is never going to do anything with his life. He is perfectly content with just getting by.
- Amanda
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